Thread: energy vampires

Originally Posted by Mrs. Peel

Yes it is but we are here and there is not to much we can do about it, we have to make the best of it, there is no real answer. I try to do the best I can, that is about it, but I do understand what you are saying.

Thank you Mrs. peel.

I am sorry if i came across as being aggressive. I do not seek confrontation. I just have limits, and i felt provoked.

Let me make myself crystal clear. You are not going to learn anything anywhere by insulting people. You are also not going to learn anything by making ridiculous assertions, such as equating narcissists to energy vampires. I understand that people make mistakes, but the tone of your original post was incredibly matter-of-fact, when, in reality, your facts were not straight. However, continuing this conversation with you will also hinder any knowledge gathering, so I will simply overlook your outburst without an apology. May you find what you seek.

Originally Posted by Mirfalan

Let me make myself crystal clear. You are not going to learn anything anywhere by insulting people. You are also not going to learn anything by making ridiculous assertions, such as equating narcissists to energy vampires. I understand that people make mistakes, but the tone of your original post was incredibly matter-of-fact, when, in reality, your facts were not straight. However, continuing this conversation with you will also hinder any knowledge gathering, so I will simply overlook your outburst without an apology. May you find what you seek.

The Great Oz has spoken.

Originally Posted by shani

The Great Oz has spoken.

You know what? I think you are an energy vampire. Or perhaps, troll is the more appropriate mythological creature.

no of course im not here to cause trouble, I may be an unfamiliar lowly member but Mr. insulted me first, so i wasnt shy about it. I just look to these forums to have honest, informative discussions, not to play games. Im sorry if i offended anyone with my bad language, other people in the past didnt seem to mind so i didnt thin it was a big deal. Just here to share info, not get into a pissing contest.

Freindly debates are great, then there may be some that have to feed of the energies that fighting gives off.

But anyways...back to the main subject. Last summer I have a energy vampie come to the store all the time. At first I didn't really think about it, I was working, I'm tired, etc, but after a while it got to the point where my hubby was trying to tell her that I just couldn't deal with her anymore. He told her that she was "you're sucking the life energy out of my wife, you got to go." bless his heart. But it was like talking to a brick way. So I had to suck it up and tell her that she was to phone before she came, this way I had some warning. But now that I'm in my prime again, when I see her, I use an invisablity spell or just white light, put up my steel bubble and then mirror all her negitivity back to her.

So far so good. I find that if you have a person that is sucking you dry, the best bet is either tell them what they are doing, cause chances are they don't even realize what is happening, or if they do, they aen't worth having a friends, what friend would harm you in this way.

Just my thought.

The is the problem. Most energy vampires who know they have the condition do not drain from unwilling people and if one do, not enough to do any harm, it is those who do not know that can be a problem. Also some people are not really energy vampires but are sick or just exhausted and drain energy from people while their own energy is so low, though this condition will then correct itself once the person is well again. But it can be a problem while it is happening.