what can i do, i need some advice
hi,
so my parents have been under the influence and acting robotic. they do destructive things and they are very harsh and terrorize me.
my expensive freezer was sold to some family a half hour away for only 100 dollars. it was worth almost 1000 dollars. this was mine, it was for me and when i left the house to get even at me, my parents sold the freezer for almost free. this is not legal. since its my freezer and im an adult i have a say.
i snuck into something and found the number of the people who have it. so i called the next day and spoke to a woman and she said she is sorry and will work out sending it back to me. she told me tho that i should call back in a few days because her husband was away and would not be back till the next week.
so i waited, big mistake. but she manipulated me into thinking she would work things out and send it to me. she was a liar and i didnt know it
i called back and then the woman said she changed her mind and that she wants to keep it. i told her it was stolen property and she did not care, she then hung up the phone on me. so i called back and she put her child on the phone and the child laughed at me on the phone and put on fake voices pretending to be her mother. which is not nice, no morals. i then called back and the mother picked up and was rude and said basically its not her problem and tough luck, she said her husband didnt want to send it to me.
ive never met more rude people in my life, this is a wakeup call to the real world to me.i never thought anyone would be this rude. i was kind and polite, i offered to reimburse her for any money she spent and that id pay to have it shipped back to me.
did not happen, the husband did not like that i called so he decided to start trouble. he called my parents right away and told them that hed call the cops on me for harrasment because i called them. my parents have severe anger problems and mental health issues, aswell as early signs of dementia because they are in their 60s. so if you go against what they said they go berserk and explode. basically my father threatened to have me arrested because i kindly called the family to get my freezer back. theres no negotiating with my parents, they are stubborn as anything. they would allow a person to die if it meant getting their way. even if they dont know what it is they want. if they dont get what they want exactly when they want they go craz and angry.
im the opposite of them. im like a flootmat , people walk all over me all the time. people have always gotten away with terrible things against me and i just have to smile and think its ok. not anymore. one of these days someone will come after something so important and ill just smile and let them take it?
im a us citizen, i should have rights
anyways god has ways of letting me know what to do or what he wants. i believe in one god and the bible and god sends me divine intervention almost daily. so basically after that freezer was taken everything else in my families life went downhill and ive had this terrible empty feeling in my stomach as if ive lost a child or a hand. something important.
well since then, my fathers employment went downhill, he owns a business and all of a sudden it crASHED. its going horrible, and my grandfathers health went down the drain sharply and he is in severe danger. a sudden turn for the worse. i hate my parents but i love my grandparents, they have been kind to me. they are nice people
also god has been sending me divine intervention since then about freezers. more than normal. everywhere i turn is a reminder of the freezer. ive seen clusters of freezer related commercials on tv, someone on the radio was talking about her freezer as soon as i turned the radio on and it was set to a station. i was near a busstop and some woman was talking loudly to somone about her freezer.i was reading a magazine and dropped it and it flipped open to a certain page and that page was an ad for a freezer.
these things happen to me pertaining to decisions or things in my life at the moment. so i understand what it is by now. the same thing usually happens to me when im dealing with other topics. its gods way of talking to me
i havent been able to sleep at night since my item was stolen. ive had nightmares. it also is sentimental to me, because of certain events which i dont want to talk about her, nothing bad.
anyhow to let another crime happen to me is wrong. if its mine then it should stay mine. you cannot sell an item that belongs to someone else.
im just scared of my parents since they blow up and get severely angry and threatening. they have connections too in all ways to getting their way.
i need this freezer back, its not just a peice of furniture or any freezer. this is the one i need. there is something attached to it, certain magick reasons that i dont want to get into. but its that particular one thats needed.
i also do not have 1000 dollars to go out and buy a replica. i have such a bad life, the least thing people can do is not rob me of things i NEED.
how do i stop my family from acting impulsive. the threaten to throw things out all the time. its insane.
so what can i do, i wanted to avoid police because im scared of police myself. something about the uniform scares me. im A quiet young woman, so i dont like conflict or scary things like cops. and also the people who tookk my freezer and have it are clergy. the womans husband is a religous clergy(eye roll) sadly to say and is behaving this way.
i wonder who hell hurt next. he threatened me even tho i was polite and kind.
he said he wants me arrested for harrasment because i called their home and was told to call back and then they refused to talk to me
the husband who is around my age ,called my father and my father told him not to talk to me and that im a teenager with a criminal record.
1)i dont have a crimincal record and never commited a crime
2)i havent been a teenager in almost 10 years
so thats wrong, so that might be why when i called they hung up on me, since in this country underage teens dont have rights to speak for themselves
i need help, what can i do to get myy item back. its so important
obviousely i dont want my parents involved. they will find a way to get me arrested.
but i cant let people hurt me. if something of mine was taken and it is important then i cannot give up this time.
i went to the police station and the woman at the desk who didnt look like she knew what she was talking about said i should take the people to small claims court.
so i will do that, i think
but i dont know what else to do. im under severe distress because of this
