This has always been a very important day to me. Though I plan all year, It seems my level of organization and preparation are always disappointing. I feel like I've got this fuzzy abstract idea of how I want to honor, and celebrate the day, and the lack of clarity always leads to disappointment. I was hoping maybe some of you could share how you spend the day, customs and traditions you observe. Is the day a social one for you, or is it spent in solitude or both? Your comments are very much appreciated. Thank you