Churchianity v. Christianity
To me the message that Jesus came to give is that we as human beings have within us the ability to ascend to a higher state and he is the example. What churchianity teaches, and uses to control the masses, is the plan B for the 99% of folks that don't get it on how ever many turns of the wheel of life that it takes. Those who have become militant in their faith IMHO are victims of mind control by those who wish to hold on to their power. Granted they are a pain in the butt but I don't see most of them as evil. Some take things to extremes in harming other that don't share their beliefs and that is immoral in my book by most standards.
In my daily life I Point out to people the inconsistencies in the common view of the world in order to brake that programing. Some will get it and some will not I have to except that and plant as many seeds as I can. You can't just tell a person that what they have believed for their lifetime is wrong because it will just bounce of the cold, black, plastic shell of social programing. In time the hold the church has will fail as all lies do.